If that's the way it is, get me out of this

[barush]

My grandmother (father's mother) has just called on my cell. She's been asking me if my father was at home and why we weren't picking up the 'home' phone. Apparently, she doesn't know my parents are divorced nor she does know we've moved and I no longer live with my father. The phone was paid by my mother so she's canceled it but apparently the number still exists even if the physical phone doesn't. When she's been asking me I've said nothing, it's been really awkward but I'm not gonna be the one who tells her all this shit. Hell no. However, sooner rather than later someone will probably have to. God, I fucking hate, hate, hate our family situation. Hate. For crying out loud it's just not normal! I'm on the verge of tears right now, this insanity is the last thing I need in my life.

ETA: She's just called again. I've let it ring and then turned off my cell. Fucking pathetic. Fucking coward.

Comments

[thegreenkat.livejournal.com]

what's wrong with people not telling their parents that they are divorcing? my other friend went through exactly the same thing 3 years ago. shit! cheer up darling ♥.

[cookie-wolf.livejournal.com]

*hugs* Yeah, it sucks, I know a lot of divorced families/fighting on the verge of divorce. I haven't a helluva lot of helpful things, since my parents aren't divorced. But I think your grandmother should know... Have you talked to your mother?

[barush.livejournal.com]

You're lucky your parents are still together, there are not many of those anymore=) And I do think my grandmother should know but I'm not gonna take the responsibility and tell her. And I should rather speak to my father about this as it's his mother but I don't speak to him much anymore and if we do, this whole divorce/moving/grandma-doesn't-know thing is kinda a taboo *sigh* Frankly, I think I'll go nuts from all the pretense.

[cookie-wolf.livejournal.com]

It's going to be awkward for a while... Call your father up sometime, maybe in a few weeks. You can't forget him, he is your father. You don't want to grow too distant.

[barush.livejournal.com]

Really, I have no clue why he hasn't told her yet but it's extremely annoying and awkward=/ Thanx, LJ comments do cheer me up <33

[seether-79.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry that things aren't going well for you at the moment, I really hope things improve! Sorry it took me so long to read this, I've actually been really sick the last week (which is kind of funny in an ironic way since you were sick not all that long ago). I hope your father gets that guts to tell his mother what is going on and that things for you improve :)

[barush.livejournal.com]

Awww, I'm sorry to hear you've been sick=/ Hope you'll get better soon <33 Being sick is just not cool at all.

Anyways, we were there yesterday and he told her nothing of course *sigh* I honestly think it'll never happen. Oh and I saw him for the first time since we moved out and he brought me some stuff, including your CDs <333333 It turned out they had arrived some time ago but he just forgot to tell me. Yeah, whatever. I haven't had time to listen to them yet but I'll do it soon=) Thanx so much *hugs* You're awesome <33

[seether-79.livejournal.com]

I am feeling a little better, I think the universe it out to get me at the moment cause when my sister was driving me to the doctor we were in a car crash, no one was seriouly injured or anything but it was the first one I have ever been in.

Your father should just tell her, it would make all your lives alot easier.

I'm glad you got the CD's... I was thinking about that the other day. They aren't great I'm going to have to make you some better one's.

[barush.livejournal.com]

Oh my God, I'm so sorry to hear that=/ Hope you're alright and everything. I always knew that karma did suck but hopefully it'll be only better from now on! =)

And don't be silly, I'm grateful for any new music I get!=) I'm gonna play the CDs when I have a bit more time to actually listen to the songs and I'm sure I'll like at least some of them=) And if not (which is improbable) it's the thought that counts <333

[seether-79.livejournal.com]

I'm fine and everything, the car is trashed though so my sister is a little upset with herself. And yes hopefully everything will be better from now on.

Your alot like me, I don't care what the music is I just love getting new stuff, hopefully you'll like some of them :)